As a guy, Ill be the first to admitits not always easy being a dude.

There are a lot of responsibilities that come with the territory.

Life as a man comes with its fair share of pressure, both physically and emotionally.

But recently, I had a conversation that completely caught me off guard.

I asked Ella what she thought was the hardest part of being a guy.

Without missing a beatand with a completely straight faceshe said, Probably getting a boner at the doctors office.

That answer broke my brain.

Now, whether she meant it as a joke or not, I wasnt ready for that answer.

Dont get me wrongrandom boners are inconvenient, surebut theyre not exactly life-shattering.

I wouldnt even put that in my top 50 list of male struggles.

Still, the fact that that was her answer made me think.

And somehow, both are worth talking about.